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Now, back to my ex wife Gail L. Sanders. I hate bringing drama out, and said virtually nothing during the entire timeframe she was accusing me of every abuse under the Sun on Fecesbook, and in the decade since. But if this bullshit is going to keep percolating up, and idiot Feds are calling me (see previous post), I have to make a statement.

Since we’re going there, and this is what she told me: in about 2012 she was in a training exercise, and while sharing quarters, sexually engaged a superior, married NCO while he was asleep. That’s an act that could be considered rape—he was unable to consent. It also puts him in a terrible position—he’s the ranking NCO, male, married. If he mentioned it, it was his career they were going to burn and his marriage that was going to end. He spent the rest of his career avoiding her. Shortly after that, she was escorted off that installation and reassigned (Federal Technician position for the Guard). Again, she told me this story. She sent emails about it. CONSENT IS A THING, both the other party, and his spouse, and me.  None of us were informed or asked.

She told me she harassed another NCO and his wife online, using her government computer and his stolen login, and caused a ton of personal problems I’m not going to detail for their privacy. She even brought the printouts to my civilian office, datestamped showing her system and his login. A friend who worked for DoD reported this security violation. At the same time, she was making statements online about her command that were both condescending and might be considered a threat. As I understand it, the MPs showed up and escorted her out of the armory (she was a unit administrator dual status technician for the National Guard.) Yes, I still have those printouts. Can you guess why I kept them?

Notice a trend there? So she’s a slow learner.

She asked a friend of mine (who a decade later is now my wife), to help install spyware on that second NCO’s phone, and mine, so she could track our whereabouts. My now wife informed her that would be a felony and the only reason she wasn’t being reported for the attempt was because Gail was married to me.

At a convention we all attended, she tried to seduce a man who she knew was married (you see another trend here?) in front of me and other witnesses. In the process she sidled up to the woman who’s now my wife (only a friend back then), reached around, grabbed her breast, flicked her nipple, and offered him a threesome, without consent of any party present. That could be considered sexual assault.

There are other examples, but these I actually have evidence on file for so she can’t try to claim slander and libel.

Forward to the divorce, wherein I got custody of the kids. There was no fight over this, no negotiation. She walked out, rented an apartment using funds from the family account (so we were short on food and bills), and never even asked about custody.  If I was actually any kind of danger, what would that say about her?

And this is the psycho accusing me of sexual assault that never happened, in a time and place it couldn’t happen, to the point the Feds are involved.

She’s been repeatedly warned by my attorney to cease her claims of being a “Domestic abuse survivor” and other crap, since she was the abusive party (in my opinion, of course), her comments are harming me, and are completely false.

It’s been a decade. I’ve tried to be as civil as possible by simply not having contact with her.  Apparently that’s not working, so there’s the relevant history if she opens her facial anus about anything else.

My ex wife, Gail L. Sanders, is a psychotic, pathological liar. In my opinion of course. I’m not making a medical diagnosis.

Interact with her at your own risk.

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